influence over children

Last night I listened to a Dectetive from a police department and catching people that do wrong with children. I have heard many speeches in this area but what the average person does not understand is simple - the Strangers has more influence over your children than does the Parents. I have heard speeches from Teachers that said the children come from broken homes and thus were not able to learn. So who causes these children to go the wrong way like contenting people over the internet for the wrong reason. Girls are even sending pictures of themsleves undressed and in many types of wrong poses that normally should be kept private. the boy friends sends the pictures to other people. yet one of things that Teen agers want is privacy so that Parents need not know what they are doing. who is responsible for the Teen Agers activies? It is amazing thing that most teachers in the public school system go along with this concept. They have actually have classes that teach Teen Agers to bypass their parents on their activities. I was involved in an Essay writing contest for 7th grade students and the public school teachers did not tell the students that they had to do it. What papers were turned in show the results of Teachers not requiring students to do anything. The Teachers have this idea to have students not meet goals but do what they want and the Teachers blame the parents for the student not learning. Who has influence over children during the day but our public school Teachers. I could go on but please investigate who has the influence over children. I remember another case a 16 year old girl took her Mother to court for not letting her run the streets. The Judge started to read the riot act to the Mother but the Mother turned the tables by SAYING SHE IS YOUR CHILD and the judge changed his turne. Now Parents have to start training their child in the home like working with them like doing the dishes, etc. That is the only way that a family can operate and be a family. I am rambling as usual. Oh yes the policeman said they were doing a good job of picking up the adut offenders but were they helping to make more offenders and kids going down hill. Don